Family Relationship
There are many difficult matters in family relationship. One of them is that you don't control the ___31___ relationship yourself。
When major family relationship problems occur, it's____32 __ to attempt a control strategy. You try to get the other person to change. Sometimes this approach works,___33___ if your request and the other person's are both reasonable. But many times it doesn't.
On the other hand, if you can't change other people, maybe you should___34___ accept them as they are. That's another strategy that sometimes works. But sometimes this can lead to bitterness and____35___ if your needs aren't being____36___ .
There is，however，a third option（选择）．You can change yourself in a（n）___37___ that solves the problem. This____38___ that you reconsider the problem as an internal one instead of a(n) ___39___ one. This means that you need to___40 ___ your awareness and make a change in your beliefs.
A. anger
B. just
c. especially
D. met
E. common
F. entire
G. created
H. requires
I. expand
J. external
K. way
L. spread