Intelligent parents, however, realize that the particular setting of each family is unique，(1)______. They use general information (2)______. For example* they will need specific suggestions for problems such as speech defects or backwardness in learning to walk or control of bodily functions. (3)______， though, problems of upbringing are recognized to be problems of relationships within the individual family, the first necessity being a secure emotional background with parents who are united in their attitude to their children.
All parents have to solve the problems of freedom and discipline. The younger the child, (4)______. She knows that if his energies are not given an outlet, (5) ______. An example of this 6 is the young child s need to play with the mud and sand and water. A child must be allowed > to enjoy this “messy" but tactile stage of discovery (6) ______. Similarly, throughout life, each ； stage depends on the satisfactory completion of the one before.
Where one stage of child development has been left out,(7)______，the child may have to go back and capture the experience of it. A good home makes this possible-一for example by providing the opportunity for the child (8)______, This principle, in fact,underlies all psychological treatment of children in difficulties with their development,(9) ______.
(From Bringing Up Children)(P27)
A.the more readily the mother gives in to his demands to avoid disappointing him
B.In the more general sense
C.before he is ready to go on to the less physical pleasures of toys and books
D.her child's continuing development may be warped
E.only as a guide in making decisions and solving problems
F.to play with a clockwork car or toy railway train up to any age if he still needs to do so
G.and is the basis of work in child clinics
H.or not sufficiently experienced
I.and there can be no rigid general rules.